YOUNG AND IN LOVE- ATTITUDES OF PARENTS AND CHILDREN Shashko Natalia, 10 th form, Gymnasium 11 Harmony English teacher: Zezyulya L.N. Novosibirsk 2009/2010

Urgency of this question The period of a youth represents very important and responsible stage of development and formation of individual. An early youth is the period when basically physical development and puberty of an organism comes to the end. Young men and girls quickly mature and it is time for the first love. It frightens parents very much. They are afraid such formation, that children keep away from them. In some cases between parents and children there are serious conflicts in this occasion, but sometimes their relationship do not change. It is necessary to understand, that relationship between parents and children during the first youthful love depends on both sides.

The purpose and problems The purpose of my research work is to compare the attitude of children and parents to such phenomenon, as the first youthful love and drawing up of the generalized picture of these attitudes. Problems of my research work are: to lead questioning among pupils and their parents to analyse obtained data to make the generalized picture of attitudes of children and parents to the first youthful love Methods of this research work: the method of questioning the method of the statistical analysis the method of the analysis of the literature

The basic features of psychology of the senior pupil: The Intellectual maturity Registration of moral principles Male/Female differentiation Professional self-determination Formation of system of social installations Contradictions of character It is time for the first love, romantic and intimate relationship

Opinion poll Do you agree, that relationship will prevent your study during the first youthful love?/ Do you agree, that relationship will prevent your children study during the first youthful love? ChildrenParents

Opinion poll Do your parents have any influence on your partner during the first youthful love?/ Do you have any influence on your childs partner during the first youthful love? ParentsChildren

Opinion poll Is it important for you an example of your family during the first youthful love?/ Is it important for you an example of your family during the first youthful love? Children Parents

Opinion poll Do you often have a heart-to-heart talk during the first youthful love?/ Do you often have a heart-to-heart talk during the first youthful love? ChildrenParents

In my opinion Parents refer to this period easy enough, trusting children, objectively estimate a situation concerning of study and choosing a future profession. They do not press on their children, do not interfere into their relationships, but only give some delicate advice.

In my opinion Relationships between children and parents do not change, thus, neither those, nor others do not have a stress.

In my opinion Parents refer to a question of sex very responsibly, ready to support children and give efficient advice.

In my opinion Children seldom talk heart-to-heart with their parents, talk about their experiences. For this purpose they have friends.

CONCLUSION Parents quite tolerantly refer to a choice of their child. They understand, that relationship of their child with his/her partner can be serious and long, therefore they wish to get acquainted with the partner and to spend with him/her some time. Young men and girls, in turn, do not consider that it is necessary to intervene in their relationship their parents, but nevertheless they are sure in gravity of their intentions.

YOUNG AND IN LOVE- ATTITUDES OF PARENTS AND CHILDREN Shashko Natalia, 10 th form, Gymnasium 11 Harmony English teacher: Zezyulya L.N. Novosibirsk 2009/2010