SEMEY STATE MEDICAL UNIVERSITY Checked by: Toleubaeva K.S Prepared by:Mehmonova N.M Group:202 Faculty: Public Health The Chair of Russian and foreign languages SIW The family in contemporary society. Modern young family and its problems

PLAN: ENTERING MAIN PART The family in contemporary society. Modern family To unite families, it is worth mentioning three things first. CONCLUSIONS

Having a place to go - is a home. Having someone to love - is a family. Having both - is a blessing.

Family means love, trust, communication, being together, sharing, understanding, listening, caring and space.Family values are deservedly praised (extolled). A well-functioning family is a microcosm of society as it should work.

Unfortunately, the contemporary (awful) habits of socialization and work have surely misled our attitudes towards living by a harmonious family relationship.

Nowadays, young people tend to be more independent and want to live separately from parents, grandparents, and withdraw. They also have fewer children. This family has 1 or 2 children. Marriage is also becoming a rarity. Many couples try to live together without being husband and wife. Thus, modern families differ a lot from each other. However, they all have something in common: when all family members love, respect and understand each other, they will surely find happiness in the sea of life.

According to the official governmental definition a family is a group of two people or more related by birth, marriage, or adoption and residing together. If we look at the past, the husband was the head of the family of traditional structure The duty of husband was to provide for his immediate family by going out to work Modern lifestyles mean that many parents have a little time for their children. Because it is now accepted that women have as much right to work as men one reason for this is that it is more and more occasions for the wife to go out to work. Many children do not get as much attention from their parents as children did in the past. The number of divorces has increased and in single-parent families children only ever see second parent. Many families today have no official status. Many people live together and regard each other as family regardless of their emotional closeness.

There are also many problems in modern young families, which can be based on a misunderstanding, the abolition of money, poor living conditions and the porch. Family conflicts often arise in connection with changing interests.To solve such problems, families should try to spend more time together. Another type of problem occurs in extended families, between brothers and sisters. They often quarrel or do not treat each other well. They can also be jealous of parents.On the one hand, no one wants to share, and many people prefer to have more personal space and freedom. On the other hand, life without brothers and sisters would be boring.There are many other problems that can arise in any family, but if they are treated with love, respect and understanding, any problem can be solved

For bringing families together, there are primarily three things that are worth mentioning.

1) Having a lifelong commitment for living by a sense of trust and honor with other family members.

2) Seeing Eye to eye on main topics, along with ability to compromise on areas of disagreement. There must be open honest communication about important matters such as financial planning, how to spend free time, what sort of social ties to emphasize, etc.

3) Practicing mutual love - an abiding, deep warmth and affection towards other family members. A love that smiles at each other's imperfections, not scorns them. A love that is eager to serve.

Hence to sum up, there lays a big responsibility on each individual family member to practically maintain the family bonding no matter what outer forces influence him/her to break such a heavens gift.

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